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The secret to finding love.

 

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KAVITA
AJWANI


I blame Hollywood.

The movies have made us feel like 'love at first sight' is the only path to love.

Like we're supposed to somehow know, at a glance (literally), who we're meant to be with for the rest of our lives.

In the real world, love doesn't happen this way.

But, love does happen.

And when you (yes you) find it, your love story is going to be meaningful, beautiful and worthy. I hope you believe that.

So how do you find love?

If I had THE answer, I’d be basking in the sun on my own island right now.

But I do have some answers, and am happy to share them with you from my cozy home office 😊

Let's run through a little scenario together.

You finally meet a man you kinda like (yay!)

You text back and forth for a while, maybe even meet a couple times.

A few days pass and, be it from your side or his, things fizzles out. And just like that, you’re back at square one.

Sound familiar?

Let me tell you about a little something that has the ability to truly change the way you think about and experience dating.

It's called the Mere Exposure Effect.

Here's the definition:

"The Mere Exposure Effect is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to develop a preference for things or people that are more familiar to them than others. Repeated exposure increases familiarity."

Or, in Dashing Date language: More Familiar = More Likey.

Here's a visual we put together for you:

My favourite example is a song.

Your bestie tells you "This song is the BEST! You just have to listen to it!"

So you listen. And it sounds a bit funky. You think.. why does she like this song so much?

But then you hear it a 2nd time, then a 3rd... and before you know it - you're snapping your fingers and doing the robot (or hopefully a way cooler dance).

To really drive this point home, when we're unfamiliar with something, it's harder to like. The more familiar we become, the easier it is to like!

It's that simple. Be it a "song" or a person.

So, I leave you with this:

How might your dating experiences your love life change if you stopped believing that you had to be attracted to someone right away?

How different would you date if you slowed down and allowed yourself the time and the space... to become familiar with someone, and to let attraction GROW?

Think about it ❤️

I help busy professional women experience 💫 incredible shifts💫
in their dating life, love life and beyond.


If you're ready to discover how to intuitively move through today’s dating scene and meet men with finesse, authenticity and ease, you're welcome to book a free Connection Call with me.

That's a wrap!
 

With love, - Coach Kavita


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